As the saying goes, ‘men by nature are social animals,’ communication plays a crucial role when maintaining any relation. As a rich and vast domain, communication involves various conveying mediums. However, as per the Zodiac sign, you may find that most Virgos have a common habit of keeping themselves isolated. They tend to avoid social interactions to the hilt and choose to remain away from the crowd. So, why are Virgos so distant?
Virgos can be distant, depending on how close the other person is or how well they know the other person. There are other complex reasons, too, as to why Virgos behave so distant. Some have understandable reasons which anybody can make it out if they observe rightly.
In contrast, others have complicated reasons which can be hard to grasp and may even cause misunderstandings. Most times, these reasons are not out in the open for all to see and understand. They don’t light the torch and place it on top of a hill, as that would be reckless of them.
Why Are Virgos So Distant?
You may have Virgo friends who seem to be distancing themselves from you or the crowd. Such behaviors are not new among Virgos, but here’s the catch: they all have their reasons. Hence, it would be kind and real mature for you to understand them first before jumping to conclusions.
Below are a few reasons to help you answer why are Virgos so distant:
They are very busy
Among the zodiacs, Virgos are one of those few signs known to work the hardest. As an Earth sign, their desire for material wealth and comfort often pushes them to toil to a great extent. Hence, with such goals and attitudes, they seldom have time to communicate and maintain relations. Even if it’s about someone close to them, they may forget important dates and go carefree about the day. They even forget their birthdays.
Due to such behaviors, communication gaps can build up and lead to relationship breakups and marriage failures. Even friends may misunderstand and feel like they are being less valued or ignored. Virgos care about their social lives, but their obsession with financial stability often takes control of their lives.
This work ethic is a part of them and is what defines them. Thus, in this case, the best thing you can do is understand and absorb how much they value their work. And accordingly, give them ample space to focus.
Being delicate people, Virgos tend to contemplate on their past actions and start to overthink. Overthinking is a trait that often brings out the worst in most people. That is why, due to bad past experiences, they can become more insecure about themselves in the future.
It can also cause the person to assume the worst in the people close to them. Hence, it creates a communication gap between the Virgos and their loved ones. They begin to distance themselves away even from strangers and doubt the veracity of any other person.
They may blame themselves or others for a bad experience and end up in depression. In this case, it can be hard to reach and rationalize with them. Confronting them may not do much benefit; instead, it may only fire back at you. It is best to be understanding with them and deal with their behaviors positively without any personal vendetta.
They are afraid of hurting you
Virgos may push their loved ones away just because they are scared to hurt them in any way. If ever they are in a relationship with someone, they have a constant fear of losing their partner. All the more, they fear that it may end up hurting their beloved. They are more afraid of being the reason why any relationship bridges have to burn. As they try to prevent such tragedy, they try to take precautionary steps beforehand by distancing themselves. They will start to act cold, remain silent, or even cut off ties with their partners.
They do this thinking that they should take up the responsibility and that it is the safest way. They will do this if they think their personality or behavior is becoming toxic for their friends. It is a way of coping with their insecurities and running for cover instead of standing and facing the music. Here, you can try to reach out to them and teach them that sharing burdens is the best answer.
They are simply not interested
Though many of the reasons may be related to their personality and behaviors, one reason might just be you. Virgos are intelligent and logical people with little time to spare. Hence, if you cannot provide them with something worth their time, they may ignore you. Some people love to loiter and laze around, doing nothing productive all day long. Involving such people will only waste the time of productive people through gibberish talks and vulgar jokes.
Virgos, understanding the actual value of their time, knows best to avoid such people. And if you’re one of such people, they might just be doing the right thing. They are incapable of spending their time with you if you don’t have anything to show for. In other words, they are not interested.
They are just taking some personal space
Being humans, at some point in their life, they can also break down emotionally. With many events and changes happening quickly around them, the burdens they’re holding may be too much to carry. As a result, they may distance themselves away from people and all their responsibilities. You can consider it as taking a break or self-healing, or taking some personal space. This process is a much needed, healthy way of coping with their stresses and burdens.
You need to be mindful and give them space for healing instead of barging in and invading their space. Once Virgos get better, their social lives will gradually improve, and you will see positive changes in them.
As the astrological sign that is sixth in the Zodiac sequence, Virgos encompass a wide range of exciting traits. And being distant is just one among the multitude. However, this trait does not define all the Virgos, as many are very outgoing and friendly.
Despite how one may treat you or behave, it is most suitable to understand the reason behind their actions. Regardless of the shows, they may put up; most appearances are mere facades to hide the actual person hiding within.