Lilith or the Black moon is an aspect of the horoscope that can be associated with the inner rebel within you. It also represents a wound that is in you that is not known to you. This wound can be represented as pain or perhaps some issues.
Lilith talks about that part in you that awakens when there is a crisis, or there is some anger or anxiety. It is the darkest portion inside you.
When Lilith comes over to the top or to the surface, you may not even recognize it. It may look unknown to you when it comes up. The Lilith point tends to trigger situations that you wouldn’t want to face directly. However, the Lilith point forces you to see the darkness within you and face it. This is a way to learn from it.
It is usually also the part of you that you don’t want the world to know about. You can say it is the ‘bad’ part of you that you want to hide.
A female’s horoscope usually refers to her dark sexuality as well as her feminity.
A male’s horoscope refers to the kind of woman he likes and is attracted to but yet afraid of.
For understanding the darkest part of a person, you need to understand which plant aspects, Lilith, mostly the hard aspects.
Hard aspects with Lilith in synastry lead to obsessive behavior. The energy of this is felt and is attractive. Lilith is not easy to satisfy and be healing or act as a destroyer. Conjunctions are felt very strongly.
A synastry that contains many squares and hard Lilith aspects usually refers to a requirement for sexual healing.
Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry
This connection will burn as hot as the sun!
The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. With the Lilith conjunct sun, the Sun person is seduced by the other Lilith person. This brings out their dark side. In this particular relationship, the Lilith person will want to push the sun person’s ego out of their boundaries.
When the Lilith person desires to overpower the sun person, problems around obsession, anger, as well as possessiveness can occur.
When it comes to Square Sun aspects or Lilith opposite, these problems tend to be having greater prominence and thus can lead to a very hot affair that can burn quickly.
When the Lilith human pushes the ego of the Sun human, the Sun human often struggles to reclaim the solar power. They tend to fall into the darkness of Lilith.
This tends to be very intense and directly affects people. It truly reveals the dark or shadow aspects of a person’s character. It can also have a transformative effect on the person itself.
People transform after this kind of relationship. This kind of relationship usually generates an irresistible kind of attraction.
The Lilith human being will bring out the compulsions from the sun human being. The sun person will most probably become obsessed with capturing the Lilith person.
One person may either intentionally or unintentionally bring forward a feeling that is unsettling from their partner. This is most probably due to the fact that the person had put a lot of importance on lust, sex, and a need to control the other.
The sun is both the ego as well as the body light. Lilith is known as the seductress. She is also related to taboo sexuality as well as the occult.
Relationship between the sun person and Lilith person
When a person’s sun conjuncts another person’s Lilith in synastry, there will be a nice kind of connection.
The Lilith human being is similar to a shadow in the presence of the sun. This can get the sun person creeped out or else even attract them. The Lilith person may block out the light of the sun and try controlling the energy of the sun. The attraction is very compelling with these two people.
The Lilith tends to be the darkness in the life of the sun. This may cause many complications in the life of the sun. The sun may also get addicted to the shadow energy of the sun. This may look like a black hole. The sun may have many responsibilities, and the Lilith person may be manipulating them and make them forget the responsibilities.
These people are usually drawn to each other the same way the night and sunset meet each other. They are attracted to each other the same way a moth is attracted to a flame. They can be positive or good for each other even though they have negatives.
By being together with each other, they both can teach each other the light and dark aspects of each other’s life. They make a very interesting type of balance. The sun tends to highlight the problems or issues of the Lilith that causes them to face them in the end anyway.
They need to do this if they desire a healthy and sustainable relationship with each other. Both the people are required to understand that they both can be themselves. They don’t have to be controlling of the other person while being themselves.
Lilith Conjunct Venus Synastry
Lilith conjunct Venus tends to be sexual and intense almost all of the time. The Venus human will want to show off her romantic side. This is usually soft and cuddly. They would love to shower Lilith with love, attention, and affection.
Lilith person would enjoy this affection for sure. However, they do not want to let themselves go. They do not want to get vulnerable and soft.
This is why in Lilith’s opposition Venus, the relationship can suffer from lies and a lot of secrets between the two people.
With hard aspects of Venus-Lilith, the greatest problems or issues arise with respect to sexual taboos, self-worth, as well as desirability levels.
When it comes to Venus square Lilith, it represents a flirtatious and intriguing kind of connection. Both the partners tend to learn and evolve together. They learn about each other in the relationship.
The Lilith human inspires the Venus human to develop lustful feelings. The Venus person then gets captive in the world of indulgence. Their heart comes under the mystic spell, which deals with gothic romance.
The attraction is extremely hot between these two partners. The sexuality is intense, and it creates a love that is both deep and dark. These two partners would most probably be those who are obsessed with passion.
This can even lead to the triggering of the instinct that is of possession and jealousy. In this relationship, the darker side of love can emerge and come out. This angle can be rather dangerous.
The relationship of a Lilith person and Venus person
Lilith conjunct Venus is extremely sexual. The kind of intensity between these two people is so much, it is out of this world. You will want to love human beings and never want them to leave them and move apart.
There is also an aspect that makes this relationship a secret. It could be anything from race, age, classism, or anything else. It is an aspect that one can never really forget. Once you look into the other person’s eyes, you will just know.
The Lilith human being feels it much more than the Venus person. But that is affected by much more than these aspects only.
When your Lilith aspects are in synastry, you might do pretty crazy things. You can want or desire a person knowing that they are not good for you. Even when the person is not even next to you, you will be able to feel their presence.
When they are actually around you, you will be well aware that they are not for you. But the issue or problem is that you cannot be without them as well.
Lilith Conjunct Moon Synastry
Lilith-moon aspects usually indicate dark and deep sexually high emotions. These emotions cannot be ignored by a person. The moon human will naturally gravitate towards nurturing as well as healing the aspects of the Lilith that needs clearing.
With the Lilith moon conjunction, the deep emotional depths of the moon are stirred due to the Black moon’s seduction. The Lilith human many a times triggers the wounds and core or main instincts of the moon person.
For the moon in the square of opposition with Lilith, the friction between the people is felt much more intensely.
Lilith’s trine moon aspect, which is in synastry many a time, represents a very strong and deep physical attraction. This tends to be much more harmonious when compared to the others.
When the Lilith person has an impact on the moon person, it usually brings out a lot of emotional aspects. It is almost an emotional storm that gets stirred up. The moon human usually gets tempted and feels rather compelled by the Lilith human. This happened on a subtle and subconscious level in their lives.
The depth of their emotions comes out intensely. It tends to radically transform all the aspects of the person’s heart and literally their whole world. It brings all the aspects of the person’s personality that were previously in the dark to light. It brings to the surface.
This can be very compelling as the moon is deeply connected to the soul of a person. This may also give rise to emotional obsessions.
Lilith Conjunct Ascendant Synastry
The Ascendant human being’s impulses that are on a subconscious level are brought out by the Lilith human being in the outdoors or public areas. When they are surrounding the Lilith human being, their external mask comes off. The inner shadow self is thus revealed in such circumstances.